Your Child Was Disciplined Today        
                      
date :                                                          
                                    
Dear Parent,                                                             
Your child,                                                                                  ,
was disciplined today for the following reason(s).                             
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                  
the discipline consisted of :                                                              
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                            (e.g. Time out, no T.V. Or loss of
other privileges)

What can We do to further prevent This from happening?                
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                 In my opinion, This incident occurred
because ,tired,                       anger,                        defence            
                  , not sure                       .
Please help me by:                                                                          
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                                                      
                                                                        please contact me
foe further Information yes                      no                       .

Thank you!       
Effective ways to Discipline A Child
Separation
Have children rest Or play apart for a Time when They keep irritating one another,
fight, squabble, And hit, Or kick.  Being apart for a while lets each other calm down.  
Then you can use other ways to encourage better behaviour.
Behavior Management
Talk with children calmly to learn what happened And why And how They see it.  Then
talk about ways to deal with it.  Come to a solution that's agreeable to both you And the
child.  This helps children learn to be responsible for their behavior.
Redirection
When children get into trouble, stop them, explain why you Are stopping them, And
suggest another activity.  When They scribble on the wall, give them paper And
crayons.  When They race dangerously indoors, take them outside for a game of tag.  
When They throw books at each other, gather them for a story Time Or organize a
beanbag toss.  This works especially well with young children.
Fix-up
When children cause trouble Or hurt, expect them to fix it up-or at least help.  If They
spill milk, give them a cloth to clean it up.  If they break a toy, ask them to help fix it. If
They make a child cry ask them to the soothing.  If They throw a toy around the room
then ask them to put the toy away.
Ignore
the best way to deal with misbehavior aimed at getting you attention is to simply ignore
it.  But be sure to give attention to Your children when They  behave well.  Children
need attention for good behavior.
Be firm
Clearly And firmly state, Or even  demand, that the child do what needs to be done.  Do
not use a wished washy tone of voice.  Speak In a tone that lets Your child know what
you mean what you say And that you expect the child to do it.  Being firm doesn't mean
yelling, threating, reasoning, taking away privileges.  Being firm works very well on
many children In many situations.
Stay In Control
Act before the situation gets out of control before you get angry And overly frustrated
nd before the Child's behavior becomes unreasonable.
Be Detached
In other words, "Keep Your Cool".  If Your child does something that you don't
approve of, Or it is wrong, pretend Your child is the neighbor's child and ask yourself,
"what would I do?" Or imagine that you Are Your child's teacher.  How would the
teacher handle This situation?  That is how you might handle it, too.